Why do most people call me weird?

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I don't insult their lifestyles?
Well, I'm a nineteen year old guy. I've never kissed, held hands or had sex with ladies.I'm really not interested in sex. I live a happy life without the need of a girlfriend, sex and all that stuff. I'm straight but, I don't like most female personalities because they tend to be judgemental, careless with their money, irrational and rather obnoxious.
Some people (mostly women) call me gay just because I say I don't need a girlfriend. I rather have money because that is the basic needs to live, as a girlfriend is not. I am a kind, decent, good-looking person (so, I've been told). Women are too much head stress for me, with their sex craving ways.
Well, I'm an introvert. My perfect life is work, eat, drink, read and play xbox. So, what is so "gay" about that?
Oh yeah, I listen to romantic era classical music, classic rock and country. I don't want to speak to women, they are boring and only talk about themselves.
Women are too promiscuous for my likings. Oh yeah, I was called a gay at one time because I turned this girl down but that was like 2 years ago and she seemed like a whore. Most girls tend to be too loving and clingy. I'm not really keen on romance it turns me sick to the stomach. I was a nice guy at one time but I can't be bothered any more. ;)
 
It sounds like you are independent, not weird. Also, that you have a fulfilling life without the need for romantic companionship at this point in time.

However, I think you are quick to judge women as you think that they judge you. Calling women whores and clingy and too loving is disrespectful.

Also, I am a true believer that like attracts like and you may be unconsciously drawing these types of women to you. You're a young person and have yet to meet many more people who will be interesting and sincere. Not all women are careless with money, judgemental, etc. My suggestion would be to keep an open mind about all people-including women. Also, look inward at the way you are treating others. Good luck.
 
well....the kind of music you listen too is good...and you like to play xbox which is fine....you're not weird...and you don't need to follow others....but you seem judgemental, stereotypical and cold...especially when you said "they are boring and only talk about themselves".....not all girls are like that...and not all girls are promiscuous either...in fact, i don't know the kind of people you interact with are like but i don't know any girl who is like that....and plus you kind of seem like a hypocrite...i don't mean to be offensive... you say that girls are judgemental and obnoxious but you sound exactly like that....if you don't want people to think you are weird, just i guess be a little nicer, and have more of a heart...you can change back to our old self
 
You sound like a really nice guy, you seem to treat people nice. I think you should live your life as you please. You didn't mention if you have any friends at all. I think friendships are really important. As for women, not all women are clingy and some don't even like sex. Many times women get sick of guys only thinking of sex. If you ever decide to have a girl in your life, look for one that is interested in things your interested in. On any note, enjoy life, you seem to be happy doing what your doing. So just keep doing it. Don't worry what other people say, just get some friends
 
Yes, you are weird. Any guy that is 19 and not interested in sex or in spending time with girls and is not gay is weird. You sound more like a loner than anything else. There is nothing wrong with being a loner as long as you realize you are just happier by yourself. You are the one that sound judgmental.
 
People call you gay because most straight guys at least have a little bit of a drive to have sex with girls.

It's not gay that you don't want a girlfriend because then you would only be having sex with one girl (and you also would avoid all the clingyness that comes with a relationship).

It's totally gay that you think that you can't have money and sex (but somehow you still have time for xbox and reading).
 
I do believe I have already answered. Stop asking the same question

Oh and P.S People call you weird because you are.
 
I don't agree with your perception of women, but I see where your coming from. You don't need to follow what others think is right. Just do what makes you feel happy, and works out best for you. I agree that work, studying, eating are important, and I also Love playing xbox. I would not consider you gay, unless you actually had a desire for other men. Don't worry about what other people say, just stick with your friends and live the single life that you want to have in peace.
Good luck!
 
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