Hi, I just moved to Tucson, Arizona from South Texas and I have noticed that the Mexican women here tend to not like Mexican men and are ashamed of their culture or don't care about it. For example when I talk to them in Spanish why do they respond in English? They clearly know what I'm saying because they answer me correctly. Also why do they hide their national pride? When I see another Mexican or Hispanic I'm proud to talk to them and of course do so in Spanish. It's pretty sad that I've had a Mexican national girlfriend and haven't got a Mexican-American woman (I have no general preference for one over the other). It's not that I haven't tried to get with them, but it seems they purposely seek Black guys or White guys to assimilate, which it seems is their main priority. Don't they have pride in their nation? I don't know about them, but I want my children to speak Spanish and know my culture. This is not a racist question, just speculating about their beliefs and reasoning.