hello kitty
New member
I have had a fair few men in my life. All of these either having an intimate discussion or the saying "I love yous" or having sex, they all pull away. I don't hear from them a few days after and they become emotionally distant. I have heard about this thing called a "man cave" where men need some time for themselves every now and then but it just seems a coinsedence that as soon as I am starting to feel close to a guy, they pull away and ignore me/become distant and some even break up with me. Not that I am a pushy person I am pretty laid back when it comes to relationships but inside I have a lot of emotions and it does hurt after we have sex that I don't hear from them in a while like they need some time to breathe or something....thoughts?