Why do I think of my dad when my BF gives me Oral Sex?

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Has anyone ever had this problem? Maybe with a mother, sibling, whatever. Its really messing me up and I cant relax aroundmy bf anymore.

Ive never had a sexually or emotionally absuive relationship with my dad. He get more annoying as we get older, but all parents do.

Im too embarrassed to seek cousilling or help. I just wanna know if youve been thru it, and what did you do to make it better?

Thanks
about the fruedian theory, np. i feel no sexual attractiont o my dad, and am not hostile to my mom.

when my dad pops into my head when it happens i freak otu and get angry and wanna stop, but i cant tell my bf. this has lead me to be hostile to my dad
 
It sounds to me that you have a guilty conscience.

That is, you know having oral sex is wrong, and you imagine your Dad knows about it.
 
Yeah. It's happened to me. I feel like I used to be daddy's little girl and innocent and now I'm doing "dirty" things or what you are doing is wrong or w/e.
Just relax and think about your guy and what's going on. Seriously totally stop dwelling on your thoughts about your father and enjoy. We grow up and mature and it is completely normal. At least that is what I tell myself. Lol
hope it helps.
 
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