why do i not find sex a pleasure?

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Nicole

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im in my teens and im new to sex, iv been with my boyfriend for about 5 months and were really close. iv had sex with him 3 times and every time has been painfull! iv spoken to friends and they said their first few times hurt but im wondering how many more:S?
plus, none of the times have felt nice atall, the concept of it is nice but every one says that sex is amazing and feels really good, im not feeling it yet? will it get better?
and how do i make sure hes having a good time because he hasn't cummed any of the times so i guess its not as nice as it could be for him either?
any surgestions? thankyou :)
 
Well obviously if it's not nice its probably not right. Usually guys cum really fast so ........ my advice is to get into it more, liike tease eachother before use hands before the real thing. Completely get eachother to need it before you do. Don't be afraid to try different things. It'll get better. Good luck.
 
Two reasons behind this, maybe one, maybe both:
1) It is just because you are new and in about 3 more times, it will fell ok.
2) It is psychological, you know if your parents found out they would be mad, you at one point planned on waiting until marriage, whatever your reason is. It is in your head and a women can not find sex enjoyable if they can not relax mentally and physically.
 
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