Why do i hurt every time i first have sex with a new man?

LEONARD L

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i had sex with my gf about 10 time an it stop hurting for her, but then again she is a lying H*o so am not sure what to say buddy. Mmm how many time have you had sex? and to tell you the truth i dont think you should have sex with every boyfriend you have, what if mr right come along and you have kids, he wouldnt want to stay with you for that. so you should wait..
 
ive had sex with over 3 men so far. every time i first do a man, it hurts. as if i was a virgin. why? is this normal?
 
well, if you're not properly lubricated, then it will hurt regardless of the newness of the man. Don't just let him shove it in there any old how, if he doesn't get you wet (a pity, you might want to reconsider doing him in that case because your subconscious might be telling you that you're not that into him) then use some water-based lubricant i.e. KY Jelly, or Durex Lube.

and of course, there's no point in using a condom if you're not properly lubricated, because the condom will break if you are too dry.
 
Completely. Even if my girlfriend and I don't have sex for a while then do she gets sore and hurts sometimes. I The vagina is like a doctor shoals form fitting shoe gel haha ( weird metaphor) it adjusts to each new partner personally. Also it is only meant to have one partner so it is technically "unnatural" But it's normal. No worries. Always be safe!
 
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