Why do I find it difficult to mingle with other people? what is wrong with me?

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CuriosityKills

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in a conversation i cant help but feel the urge for it to end. when im Around people, i can't think straight. i always feel isolate and i have nothing to say..then when i'm alone i feel relieved

this is so bad that i can't even talk to women. when they do talk to me, it dosent go anywhere because i can't seem to mingle with them for a long period of time.

is this social anxiety or what? should i worry about it?
 
more confidence with social skills comes with time. when ur in conversations with girls for example, if u havent met them before, then keep it simple. u can use cleshays...say things like 'hey, im ..... i dont think ive met u b4.....wot skl r u guys from' etc.

its okay to not say that much, just keep involved. listen to wot other people say and reply. u dont need to think things up all the time. and also stay in large groups at first. that way there is always a new flow of conversation...
 
dont fret about it- you are here to help balance out the world. theres some people who talk wayyyy too much so it's okay. some girl will like you for who you are and accept that. i dont think you should put a label on this unless you are seeing some more symptoms than just not wanting to conversate with people.
 
i think you are just shy, just talk to people over the phone get to know them there and then start talking to them in person.
 
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