So for a while, I talked to this girl and one night we had finally met, after that we didn't talk as much (text) or call each other as much. She's told me she doesn't have feelings for me but before that she said she liked me a lot and found me extremely attractive. I know she has a history of being abused/used by guys. I'm not like that at all. I like this girl a lot but it seems like every time I ask her to hang out with me just to talk in person, she has an excuse or something like last night she left me a couple voicemails that seemed a little fishy lol... Like fake yawning, saying she fell asleep but then says if you want to talk to me call me and wake me up whenever. I don't understand. She constantly texts me, but rarely calls me? And sees me once in a blue moon. She also flirts around with me a lot (says certain stuff) but then won't provide stronger details (i guess it would be borderline teasing but not in a sexual way) although she has talked to me about sex before. Anyway, do you guys think she's dodging me or she's just being cautious about being around a new guy?
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Why do I feel like this girl is dodging me?
- Thread starter Ray
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"I ask her to hang out with me" BZZZZT, WRONG!
this girl does like you, or at least she did at one point, but when you pursue her she pulls away. YET, she has been in abusive relationships so she liked something about those guys!
add all this up and the answer is simple: don't pursue her, take a lesson from the abusive guys she has liked and make her chase you! when she shows interest, PULL BACK like she's doing to you! It will show her she has to work for it, and she'll like the chase and then you'll get it on....okay I'm gettin ahead of myself but u know what I mean.
Never "ask" her to hang out---you are already doing something cool, because you are cool and your life is cool, and she can come if she wants. that's the attitude you need.
this girl does like you, or at least she did at one point, but when you pursue her she pulls away. YET, she has been in abusive relationships so she liked something about those guys!
add all this up and the answer is simple: don't pursue her, take a lesson from the abusive guys she has liked and make her chase you! when she shows interest, PULL BACK like she's doing to you! It will show her she has to work for it, and she'll like the chase and then you'll get it on....okay I'm gettin ahead of myself but u know what I mean.
Never "ask" her to hang out---you are already doing something cool, because you are cool and your life is cool, and she can come if she wants. that's the attitude you need.