why do i feel guilty if its not my fault they're arguing?

Sarah I

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my dad has recently been wanting to get me a car, cause im gonna be sixteen soon and im gonna be learning how to drive and all..but he's been sneaking around my mom's back, and then lying to her, or rather not telling her the whole truth about where he's been and what he's been doing. tonight my mom started talking about this and how its not my fault and all and that she cant stand it with him doing that. she started crying and she started subtly hinting that "if this is how its gonna be, he can kiss my ass" -actual quote..im worried about them getting a divorce..i mean my mom said its not about me..but i feel im the one who caused this..i told her what he was doing when even he didnt tell her anything..and i was the one who wanted that car in the first place...now even my sister is blaming me for what is yet to come. why do i feel so guilty? and is there anything i can say to my mom to comfort her?
 
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