Green Wood
New member
...control my surroundings? I just cannot manage time. I cannot say no to people. When they ask something I do it for them and cannot use my time for doing my things. I am not suggesting that I don't want to do things for others. But I cannot say no to all. I lag and lag and lag and there is no end to it. How can I overcome this problem. How can I be more assertive? How can I find the core issue?
When I become late I feel bad about my self and it has affected in tarnishing my self image. How can I be in charge of my life? I feel so weak and tired, both mentally and physically. As I fail to do things properly everyone is disappointed of me, even though I have given so much of my time and energy for them. Should I be selfish? But I feel so bad about putting myself first.
Actually becoming late seems to be a symptom of a much more complex problem. How can I spot and overcome it?
Please tell me if there is a way out.
When I become late I feel bad about my self and it has affected in tarnishing my self image. How can I be in charge of my life? I feel so weak and tired, both mentally and physically. As I fail to do things properly everyone is disappointed of me, even though I have given so much of my time and energy for them. Should I be selfish? But I feel so bad about putting myself first.
Actually becoming late seems to be a symptom of a much more complex problem. How can I spot and overcome it?
Please tell me if there is a way out.