Helloooo nurse
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I'm a good girl, classy lady with manners, and naturally just a nice person. I don't go out of my way to gain others' approval (therefore be super nice to them); however I'm just an easygoing person with a down to earth attitude. I'm not a big flirt at all and as I get older I am aware that I do need to restrict my kindness somewhat. Bottom line: there's no reason for me to be a b*tch if I don't have to be one. What's also surprising is that guys also tell me how they're a bit hesitant in approaching me bc of my looks (???) and when they find out i'm a "cool girl", they relax but that's when it sucks bc it's there when they assume I'm interested. (I'm not gorgeous but I am "feminine" and like to take care of myself). We could be talking about basketball, me giving them "crap" bc of a team they like and they're hooked. I look back at what I say and do (even ask my close friend for non-biased advice) and i really don't do anything that would make them think or feel this way.