STILL STAYS IN THE MARRIAGE.? I AM SO CONFUSED, I MEET SO MANY OLDER MEN OVER 60 WHO HAVEN'T HAD SEX IN YEARS, YET DESIRE IT BUT DON'T REALIZE WE ARE LIVING TO DIE AFTER 60 AND I CAN'T UNDERSTAND WHY THEY STAY WITH A WOMAN WHO DOESN'T WANT NOR DESIRE SEX. I WOULD NOT WANT TO DIE KNOWING THERE WAS SOMETHING I MISSED IN MY LIFE AT AN OLDER AGE. THIS IS THE TIME TO RELAX AND ENJOY OURSELVES. I HAVE MANY MALE FRIENDS LIKE THIS AND CAN'T UNDERSTAND WHAT ENJOYMENT NOW THAT YOUR FAMILY IS GONE YOU GET OUT OF STAYING WITH A WOMEN WHO DOESN'T DESIRE YOU. CAN SOMEONE PLEASE TELL ME WHY IT IS DONE. I AM 70 YEARS OLD AND WOULD NOT IN ANYWAY STAY WITH A MAN I DIDN'T WANT TO BE WITH. LIFE IS PRECIOUS AND I WANT TO ENJOY SEX, HAVE FUN AND LOVE MY MAN. I WANT TO DO ALL THE CRAZY THINGS WE COULDN'T DO RAISING OUR FAMILY. WE ARE NOW ALONE AFTER ALL THESE YEARS AND I WANT TO BE FRESH WITH MY HUSBAND AND DESIRE HIM ALL THE TIME. I LEFT MY CAPS ON BECAUSE I CAN TYPE BETTER WITH CAPS AND READ IT CLEARER. I AM NOT SHOUTING AT ANYONE. I AM LIVING TO DIE AND I WANT TO ENJOY WHAT IS LEFT OF MY LIFE. I COULD NOT DO THAT BEING WITH SOMEONE I DON'T WANT TO SLEEP WITH, NOR HAVE SEX WITH. EXPLANATION FROM MEN PLEASE.
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WHY DO COUPLES GROW APART AND THE WOMEN DON'T WANT SEX BUT THE MAN WHO DESIRES IT
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WHY DO COUPLES GROW APART
>> Mostly because they do NOT know how to stay close and keep their love alive!
I CAN'T UNDERSTAND WHY THEY STAY WITH A WOMAN WHO DOESN'T WANT NOR DESIRE SEX.
>> FEAR of the unknown! They stay because it's known and SAFER!
I HAVE MANY MALE FRIENDS LIKE THIS AND CAN'T UNDERSTAND WHAT ENJOYMENT NOW THAT YOUR FAMILY IS GONE YOU GET OUT OF STAYING WITH A WOMEN WHO DOESN'T DESIRE YOU. CAN SOMEONE PLEASE TELL ME WHY IT IS DONE.
>> It's not about "enjoyment" - it's about SAFETY!
I AM LIVING TO DIE AND I WANT TO ENJOY WHAT IS LEFT OF MY LIFE. I COULD NOT DO THAT BEING WITH SOMEONE I DON'T WANT TO SLEEP WITH, NOR HAVE SEX WITH. EXPLANATION FROM MEN PLEASE.
>> Fear drives much if not most of what we do in life! You're afraid you will miss something while many others are afraid to take chances.
>> Mostly because they do NOT know how to stay close and keep their love alive!
I CAN'T UNDERSTAND WHY THEY STAY WITH A WOMAN WHO DOESN'T WANT NOR DESIRE SEX.
>> FEAR of the unknown! They stay because it's known and SAFER!
I HAVE MANY MALE FRIENDS LIKE THIS AND CAN'T UNDERSTAND WHAT ENJOYMENT NOW THAT YOUR FAMILY IS GONE YOU GET OUT OF STAYING WITH A WOMEN WHO DOESN'T DESIRE YOU. CAN SOMEONE PLEASE TELL ME WHY IT IS DONE.
>> It's not about "enjoyment" - it's about SAFETY!
I AM LIVING TO DIE AND I WANT TO ENJOY WHAT IS LEFT OF MY LIFE. I COULD NOT DO THAT BEING WITH SOMEONE I DON'T WANT TO SLEEP WITH, NOR HAVE SEX WITH. EXPLANATION FROM MEN PLEASE.
>> Fear drives much if not most of what we do in life! You're afraid you will miss something while many others are afraid to take chances.
Well for me it has been 4 years. I am not 60 yet but getting close. I stay because we do have an 20 + year history together and do love her, but it is starting to make me bitter and resentful. Financially it would be a big impact. Being the guy I would cost me half of my retirement and most of the assets we have accumulated over the years. Don't think I am ready to live in a small apartment after being in a large house with lots of property. I figure I will just have a fling on the side. It will be cheaper. If I like her enough then I will leave my wife.
Well for me it has been 4 years. I am not 60 yet but getting close. I stay because we do have an 20 + year history together and do love her, but it is starting to make me bitter and resentful. Financially it would be a big impact. Being the guy I would cost me half of my retirement and most of the assets we have accumulated over the years. Don't think I am ready to live in a small apartment after being in a large house with lots of property. I figure I will just have a fling on the side. It will be cheaper. If I like her enough then I will leave my wife.
Well for me it has been 4 years. I am not 60 yet but getting close. I stay because we do have an 20 + year history together and do love her, but it is starting to make me bitter and resentful. Financially it would be a big impact. Being the guy I would cost me half of my retirement and most of the assets we have accumulated over the years. Don't think I am ready to live in a small apartment after being in a large house with lots of property. I figure I will just have a fling on the side. It will be cheaper. If I like her enough then I will leave my wife.
Well for me it has been 4 years. I am not 60 yet but getting close. I stay because we do have an 20 + year history together and do love her, but it is starting to make me bitter and resentful. Financially it would be a big impact. Being the guy I would cost me half of my retirement and most of the assets we have accumulated over the years. Don't think I am ready to live in a small apartment after being in a large house with lots of property. I figure I will just have a fling on the side. It will be cheaper. If I like her enough then I will leave my wife.