why did i cry during sex??!!?

  • Thread starter Thread starter Melody<3
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You're only young and with it being your first time you were probably just a little overwhelmed by the experience. Don't panic. The more you worry about this the more likely it is that it will happen again. Next time just make sure you are totally relaxed, take things nice and slow only moving from one step to another when you feel most comfortable. Why not take control. Instigate the kissing and then when you do have sex try being ontop so that you are totally in control of what happens. ALWAYS use protection and remember to never be pushed into sex, make sure that you are ready and feel confident, relaxed and comfortable with your partner. I'm 21 years old and I've been with my partner for 5 years. Sex is a very intimate part of any relationship and I'm sure you'll e happy to hear that I still find myself shaking afterwards on occasion, I don't know why but at least you know now that you're not alone. xx
 
Sex is a big deal, you were probably overwhelmed-your boyfriend was gentle and caring and your are a girl...it's normal for you to get teary over something like that. I'm not sure you can do anything to prevent it...the fact that it'll be your second time may help that.
 
Im sorry to hear it didnt go so well.

It could be that you were not ready or didn't know what to expect?

Were you in any pain?
 
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