Okay so here's the deal. My ex and I broke up a few months ago (he ended it, but the decision was mutual) I was actually pretty relieved it was over because he just stopped putting effort into the relationship while I was still trying to make it work. We had a realllly smooth break up and a normal convo right then and there. He was still acting like we were best friends but the next day I had to get things off of my chest and ended up talking to him calmly about how he made me feel like sh*t for the last part of our relationship. He obviously didn't want to hear it and didn't respond properly, so I gave him his space. We ran into each other a week later and started talking again. He seemed pretty happy to talk to me again, would also initiate contact and even bought me lunch one day! It was happening slowly but I thought things were going pretty good. Then out of nowhere he just started ignoring me? I mean, I wasn't clingy, bitchy, nor with another guy. I started ignoring him then too. I didn't say anything to him but he deleted and blocked me off of everything? He also got a new gf a week after he started ignoring me and everyone's saying she's a rebound (she was always obsessed with him and he found her realllyy annoying and not much attractive .. yet now she's his gf?). A month after we stopped talking to each other, I realized I still had some of his things and since he had been ignoring me I decided to put them in his locker instead of giving them straight to him. (We're seniors btw). He unblocks me a few days later and starts off with a half normal conversation but then just starts b*tching at me with some lame excuse. He went off about how never wants to see me or talk to me again, and I'm just thinking to myself then why the hell is he even taking the trouble to talk to me right now? Just keep me blocked and don't talk, right? Anyways, that conversation didn't end all that bad, but he's blocked me ever since. I never even did anything to him! He didn't have an answer when I asked him what he has against me. I should be the one acting like this towards him, yet he's doing this? WHATS UP WITH HIM?
I'm going to be moving away in a few months. My ex and I knew of this before we even started dating. So my question is 1) Why did he act the way he did? and 2) Should I even talk to him IF he tries talking to me or saying bye?
Also, I'm pretty sure he cheated on me at the end of our relationship, or I know he atleast tried to. I don't know if he actually did it but I found out there were plans to meet up. Even after THAT I tried forgiving and forgetting because I didn't want to lose a friendship I guess since we used to be good friends before dating. I never said anything about it to him though, because by the time I found out - it was over, and on top of that I wasn't 100% sure he cheated. And he didn't cheat with his rebound girl, it was some other tramp.
Does this guy even deserve me talking to him? Sometimes I think just who cares, if he tries saying bye then say bye too, you're probably never going to see him again. But then I think if I'm never going to see him again might as well tell him to fuckk off after all that.
We are each others first loves, and I did love him a lot. I guess deep down I still do, but at the same time I just hate what he did! I know he loved me a lot too, I just don't understand what happened over that last month. We just had less time for each other and plus me moving made him less motivated to work on the relationship. But, I mean come on. We were still together and he started looking for a fling ? Fucking douchebag.
I'm confused. Your thoughts?
I'm going to be moving away in a few months. My ex and I knew of this before we even started dating. So my question is 1) Why did he act the way he did? and 2) Should I even talk to him IF he tries talking to me or saying bye?
Also, I'm pretty sure he cheated on me at the end of our relationship, or I know he atleast tried to. I don't know if he actually did it but I found out there were plans to meet up. Even after THAT I tried forgiving and forgetting because I didn't want to lose a friendship I guess since we used to be good friends before dating. I never said anything about it to him though, because by the time I found out - it was over, and on top of that I wasn't 100% sure he cheated. And he didn't cheat with his rebound girl, it was some other tramp.
Does this guy even deserve me talking to him? Sometimes I think just who cares, if he tries saying bye then say bye too, you're probably never going to see him again. But then I think if I'm never going to see him again might as well tell him to fuckk off after all that.
We are each others first loves, and I did love him a lot. I guess deep down I still do, but at the same time I just hate what he did! I know he loved me a lot too, I just don't understand what happened over that last month. We just had less time for each other and plus me moving made him less motivated to work on the relationship. But, I mean come on. We were still together and he started looking for a fling ? Fucking douchebag.
I'm confused. Your thoughts?