Why could I be looking for reasons to argue with my boyfriend?

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For some reason I WANT to argue, I WANT to fight. I have the strangest urge to want to hurt him. To piss him off, and make him argue back.. I don't know why, I love him.
 
been there done that .. probs just coz your bored and want to get a reaction out of him to make it more interesting this is the case usually when you have been with someone for a long time ! also sometimes you want to see what there limits are .. be careful ! not sure why you would want to hurt him from that alone i reckon you dont want to be with him but you want him to be the one to end it !
 
Perhaps you feel insecure within yourself about something (we all do from time to time) and when you are with your boyfriend he brings that out of you? Or maybe he behaves in a certain way that frustrates you and you want him to approach an issue within himself by having an argument? I used to do that with my ex and didn't know why. K x
 
Maybe its really serious, thats the relationship I mean.

Why view getting pi**d off as a negative when really it is a common emotion. Anger, frustration etc, don't turn your back on it we all have these thoughts.

In this case sounds like you are testing him to see if you can have an argument then make up after. Its a good release for both of you and perfectly normal.
 
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