Why can't people discuss some topics calmly?

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when people say that michael jackson was gay, or most of his fans started buying his albums after he died, or stuff like that.

why can't people hear both sides of the story without taking it opersonal and insult each other?
 
There's probably some people that will. I don't know what's going in their heads but I can guess.
When I get mad I have a problem. Like there's an arrangement of events and they feel bad to me. Urcked me. I have unresolved issues with some people. Sometimes other people look like or remind me of these people. And I am triggered to become angry.
Also, I think that I wouldn't have the problems I have today if I would have just given back some of the medicine others gave to me in my junior high and highschool years. This means I would do the opposite of what you say, I would not discuss or be calm. But I would tell them that they are a slut if they call me a slut. I would feel so much better. But those days are gone now.
I was very calm for everything that happened. Sometimes being calm is counterproductive, I think.!
 
high emotions.

if we were what you want us to
be 'calm', then we would be in
heaven and angelic not here on
earth. This was how we're made.
 
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