Why can I not get better at anything?

TronPachi

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When I try to get good at anything , it never works out. I'm not good at literally anything. I tried band and got kicked out because I'm not good. I try so hard at drawing and frustrate myself to the point of crying because I can't do it. I can't get a girlfriend. I can't get good at any video or card games. I even quit high school because I wasn't good at social or academic stuff. Practice never helps me and that goes with sports too. I bet I couldn't even kill myself properly like I'm planning. Are people born with natural presets? Why'd I get skipped over? What teachers can help if I'm not already beyond it? I just want to be good at something or I'm just going to rage quit breathing.
 
You just haven't found something that you really like yet. Once you do you will find that you put a lot of time into it and then you will get better. Even people may have a "so called" natural ability to do something still have to take the time and work at it. There is nothing wrong with just having interest in things and just enjoying for a certain period of time. You may find that you will have tried many different things, more than others, and it doesn't matter that you never became an expert in it. It really doesn't. Just do what you enjoy and take the pressure off yourself to perfect it. You did not get skipped over, really. Don't feel that way. Just do the things you enjoy and always be open to try new things. It is what makes you happy that really matters in life, not how good you are at it. Now enjoy life!! :-)
 
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