Ok here’s what really bothers me. I have aspergers first of all and meeting women is very hard for me!!! I would do anything to improve my social skills and meet women. I would get involved in clubs, a bowling league, and even go out to the bookstore and try to chat or strike up a conversation with women and NOONE TALKS TO ME AND I ALWAYS FEEL IGNORED and I never have anything interesting to talk about. I am friendly and try to strike a conversation and they just don’t give a rats a*s about me or want to talk!!
I want to mingle in with some women who I don’t know but I am afraid that I am not welcome because in the past, I have been told by a lot of women I am creepy that I am trying to hang with them and talk to them. Even at a seminar or singles club, I am very friendly and I talk to some women and THEY ARE JUST STUCK UP AND TELL ME TO LEAVE AND I BEEN CALLED A LOSER!!!
Please help me. What should I do? For an example if I am at the bar with a bunch of strangers I don’t know and everyone is mingled in socializing, I don’t know what to say and don’t have the proper social skills on what is ok to say and what isn’t. I always say something so dumb and it turns women off so I need some help!
I am always told to watch my personal space too BUT MEANWHILE, EVERYONE ELSE MINGLES AND PICKS UP WOMEN AT CLUBS, AND JUST PARTIES AND I FEEL LEFTOUT! EVEN WHEN I DRINK TO LOOSEN UP!
I want to mingle in with some women who I don’t know but I am afraid that I am not welcome because in the past, I have been told by a lot of women I am creepy that I am trying to hang with them and talk to them. Even at a seminar or singles club, I am very friendly and I talk to some women and THEY ARE JUST STUCK UP AND TELL ME TO LEAVE AND I BEEN CALLED A LOSER!!!
Please help me. What should I do? For an example if I am at the bar with a bunch of strangers I don’t know and everyone is mingled in socializing, I don’t know what to say and don’t have the proper social skills on what is ok to say and what isn’t. I always say something so dumb and it turns women off so I need some help!
I am always told to watch my personal space too BUT MEANWHILE, EVERYONE ELSE MINGLES AND PICKS UP WOMEN AT CLUBS, AND JUST PARTIES AND I FEEL LEFTOUT! EVEN WHEN I DRINK TO LOOSEN UP!