Why are there mixed feelings on sex?

[supertrixin]

As a man I understand our sex drives are higher for various reasons, What I want to know is why women look at it like a bad thing. Yes men who have sex with wimen and leaver are bad, but in a serious relatlationship Why not have sex as often as possile, what makes it so bad?

 

[Bob C]

Sex is a lot like ice cream. It comes in a lot of different flavors.

But, eat too much and you'll get fat and sick.

Moderation in all things.

 

[Lexington]

i think some women think that because men's sex drive is so high that they would just want to get into a relationship just for sex.

 

[Spooky is the Boi Wonder!]

Because women are raised to put their needs secondary to other peoples. Apparently they think this makes women good mothers, but all it does is lead to martyrs. Women end up giving in to what the men want out of fear of losing them. Men who simply want sex whenever they want it, without thought in regards to what their partner wants are just plain selfish.

If a man knows a woman has a lower sex drive than him, and still insists on pushing on her for his sexual gratification, why wouldn't she see it as a bad thing?

 

[xxloversxx]

because it can make the relationship seem like not a relationship at all, having sex all the time with someone can make them feel like the only thing their bf/gf wants is their body and not who they are, it could end up just a friends with benefits relationship