They only screw with folks that don't ride. I just got back from a 5,000 mile road trip with better than 90 % of the bikes being Harleys. I got nothing but compliments, and courtesy along the road. I spent time in downtown Sturgis with thousands of Harley guys, some wearing colors, and still had no issues. Maybe you should start exploring what the common denominator of these HD issues, which would of course be you.
Act like a punk and you get what you get around these guys, they just don't tolerate nonsense.