I see a lot of Asians where I live, they are pushy, obnoxious and look down at white women like me and talk about me in their lingo. Having said this, if you have something they want from you, they are all over you, pretending to be your friend and when they don't need you anymore, they no longer talk to you. I know this happens in a lot of cultures, but compared to most Western people, they are so rude and have no manners. Is this cultural?