[Posted this eslewhere, but I added new information]
Please, please help me out!
- I am a 21 year old, and my girlfriend is 19 years old. My work drags me out of town a lot, so we don't really know, when i'm going to be coming home, and when i'm not going to be home.
We've been together for a little over 4 months now, and all we've done is kiss. We haven't made out, and we definitely haven't done anything sexual. I know that she wants to, but she know's that i'm nervous about it. I want to be able to kiss her and actually have sex with her, without feeling nervous around her.
I know this is probably going to sound weird, but she is the only girl I have been with, she's my first girlfriend, and I guess I don't want to screw it up. We're also both virgins.
I know I love her, and I know she loves me, and she said she'll wait as long as I need, but it's been around 4 months now, and I know that she's getting more (I don't know the correct terminology) aroused ?
It's got to the state, where we can't even kiss, without her getting agitated, and needing to leave the room, ? I'm not sure why though.
I guess, I just want to know how I can not be nervous around her, and why she is starting to act this way around me. We'd kiss, and then she'd get all tense and look like she has a fever or something?
Thanks !
New Details:
It's not that she isn't ready. She's the one who is indicating that she wants to have sex, it's not that i'm rushing her. She has attempted to dry sex, oral etc. But I don't know, I just shut down, and ask her to stop. It's not that i'm not attracted to her, I love her lots. I don't know what my problem is
Please, please help me out!
- I am a 21 year old, and my girlfriend is 19 years old. My work drags me out of town a lot, so we don't really know, when i'm going to be coming home, and when i'm not going to be home.
We've been together for a little over 4 months now, and all we've done is kiss. We haven't made out, and we definitely haven't done anything sexual. I know that she wants to, but she know's that i'm nervous about it. I want to be able to kiss her and actually have sex with her, without feeling nervous around her.
I know this is probably going to sound weird, but she is the only girl I have been with, she's my first girlfriend, and I guess I don't want to screw it up. We're also both virgins.
I know I love her, and I know she loves me, and she said she'll wait as long as I need, but it's been around 4 months now, and I know that she's getting more (I don't know the correct terminology) aroused ?
It's got to the state, where we can't even kiss, without her getting agitated, and needing to leave the room, ? I'm not sure why though.
I guess, I just want to know how I can not be nervous around her, and why she is starting to act this way around me. We'd kiss, and then she'd get all tense and look like she has a fever or something?
Thanks !
New Details:
It's not that she isn't ready. She's the one who is indicating that she wants to have sex, it's not that i'm rushing her. She has attempted to dry sex, oral etc. But I don't know, I just shut down, and ask her to stop. It's not that i'm not attracted to her, I love her lots. I don't know what my problem is