why am i forsaken

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kellyhuffaker

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have you ever felt like your heart is pouder from so many times broken. for me this has been the 7th year without a lover. i feel as if im not going to have anybody for the rest of my life and that sucks, because my only real fear is dying alone, and there is a possibility i will never find somebody and i will die with my worst fear, WHY AM I FORSAKEN GOD DAMNIT:mad:
 
When you stop looking; that's when you'll find one. You can't force these things. Learn to be content and comfortable with yourself. If you can't be, nobody else will be either.

What's your native tongue?
 
Chicks dig grammar. We like capital letters and punctuation and correct spelling.


All jokes aside, have you ever considered therapy, perhaps some sort of pill? How about a simple change of environment? Move to a new city or town. Take up a hobby where women might also be involved. Or here's a suggestion, lower your standards if they seem a bit high. Are you poor, short, and balding? You probably won't score a supermodel so try aiming for someone a little lower on the food chain.

For some reason, dating today is extremely hard. When my ex-husband and I split, it took two years for me to finally meet someone worth pursuing a relationship with. It was rough. Alot of lonely nights watching chick flicks and eating caramel corn.

Good luck.
 
You are young, You got time to find a good woman. Some peoepl dont' find the right one for many years. It doesn't have to be that way for you. I will tell you one thing for sure. Women do not like men feeling sorry for themselves. They like seeing at least some sort of confidence and a feeling of self-worth. Do yourself a favor. Find someone to talk to professionally, and make an effort to get that blue feeling out of you. You may need to take some meds. You sound depressed. I hope you feel better soon!
 
hahahahah. You're 17 and worried about dieing alone. Relax, you got soooooo much time to live and you're freaking out. The more insecure you are about being single the more you turn girls off.
 
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Sometimes you have to go outside the box... in this case the computer to find someone to love. Sorry buddy, but internet porn just isn't going to love you back.
 
Yes, it's nice (understatement) when you find someone you like and they like you back, but it's not a make or break situation. Get to know yourself first, and then be that self to the best of your ability. When/if you find someone who appreciates what you are/have become, they are the lucky one.

There is so much emphasis on being one half of a couple (or whatever arrangement works) that we forget to appreciate ourselves, by ourselves.

Do you like yourself now? If not, then what can you change so that you truly appreciate the person inside yourself?

Once you've gained the confidence to truly appreciate what and who we are, others can see that.

Don't set yourself a time limit for a relationship. You never know when that "soulmate" is going to show up, or even if they will, so there is absolutely no sense is waiting around.

There was a quote from the movie "Crossing Delancey". It went something like: "I'm not closing the door to a relationship, but I'm not holding my breath either."

Makes sense to me.
 
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