Where is the line between Pagan pride and Pagan proselytism?

[Cosimo )O(]

From my reading, it seems pretty clear that adherence to Wicca or other Neopagan religions was pretty much generally a matter kept closely private. Yet here we are on the internet, admitting our Paganism to the world and demonstrating Pagan pride.

Where do you draw the line between self-expression and discretion? Just for example, would you agree with some Wiccan writers who have said that people who wear Pagan jewellery are fake or fluffy?

What is the difference between being "ready to answer those who ask" and plain proselytism?
I just want to make it clear that the TDs are not mine. Thanks for all your answers so far.

 

[Nightwind: Mwa ha ha!]

The first is expressing yourself. The second is seeking others to join.

I commonly wear one pentagram. While it is in plain view, it is largely for my benefit, not for others. The fact that I am willing to wear it openly reflects the fact that I am out of the closet. I see no reason why that would make me fake or fluffy. (incidentally, I've never heard that before and am curious who said it)

However, there are people who wear pagan jewelry solely for other people to see. It means nothing to them other than "hi, I'm a Wiccan (or whatever). Got a problem with that?" That mentality is obnoxious. These people often wear very large jewelry or multiple pieces, so that they become a virtual advertisement board for their religion.

Being out of the closet does not mean I announce it to the world. My neighbors and co-workers currently do not know I'm Wiccan. However, should the matter naturally come up, I would not have any problem admitting such and answering questions if they are asked. I do not lecture. I do not throw it in people's faces. But I also do not actively hide it.