When you whine to someone about a specific behaviour, are you sure you.......?

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Absolutely
take parents for instance. when you discipline your kids by yelling or spanking you teach your kids to do the same in adverse situations.
 
I am smart enough to think all that through BEFORE I dare open my mouth and "whine" to anyone. I really do not like that expression: "whine".

Because I have been told all my life that I am VERY blunt, I have learned I have to be very careful what I say, how, and to who I talk to. And my extreme dislike for hypocrites makes me even more cautious of what I say.

Thinking about what I complain about, I have to say the things are not things I am guilty of. I complain because I do not like certain things. I know I am far from perfect - people complain about me too. When they have a valid complaint, I change what I am doing.
 
No. That isn't the point so it doesn't matter. Whining is essentially letting off steam.
People are, and are allowed to be hypocrites you know. Don't act like you aren't.
 
We mainly complain about behaviours that are only too familiar to us. We know the roots of it and it is scary, most of the times. For me, it is almost a rule we reproduce behaviours for which we complain about.
 
The fact that I may do something does not in any way mitigate against my freedom to whine at others for the same behavior!! "Do as I say, NOT as I do!!"
 
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