When will sex get pleasurable for me?

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Hey! Don't worry, it's different for everyone but the discomfort should go away soon for you. You might even want to take an advil or something about an hour before you have sex, to make the pain a little better, so that you can continue until the end. I know that kind of sounds like weird advice, but it works, seriously.
The pain is just an obstacle to get over. Soon it'll feel good. Everyone stops feeling it eventually, and it doesn't take long at all. For me, it took until about the fourth time. I toughed it out and went through with it each time, so you might have to ignore the pain, no matter how impossible that may sound. Think about other things, let your mind wander a little, just think about anything but the pain.

Good luck!
 
How long after losing your virginity does the uncomfortableness go away?
So, ive only had sex 3 times so i know thats probably why its a little uncomfortable like when he sticks it in but im just wondering how long that lasts? And why cant i last verry long while having sex? Like, last time me and my bf had sex i had to stop because i couldnt go any longer because it was just feeling too uncomfortable. And i know that some people say that dryness can cause irritation and uncomfortableness but i get pretty wet so i dont think thats the issue. thanks soo much for the help :)
 
some girls are "tighter" than others, as some guys are bigger than others, do you bleed after intercourse?? kegal pelvic exercises (squeezing the pelvic muscles) can sometimes help the muscles to not only tighten but also become more flexible. is he the only person or 'thing' (i.e. some form of masturbatory aid) to penetrate you? discovering your own body can help to figure out whether it's him or you? invest in some form of dildo (try using a condom on these too for hygiene purposes). if this doesn't work, consult a g.p. or a sexual health clinic.
 
some girls are "tighter" than others, as some guys are bigger than others, do you bleed after intercourse?? kegal pelvic exercises (squeezing the pelvic muscles) can sometimes help the muscles to not only tighten but also become more flexible. is he the only person or 'thing' (i.e. some form of masturbatory aid) to penetrate you? discovering your own body can help to figure out whether it's him or you? invest in some form of dildo (try using a condom on these too for hygiene purposes). if this doesn't work, consult a g.p. or a sexual health clinic.
 
Maybe because previously during sex when you have found it too uncomfortable so now you could be tensing up and making it difficult for your bfriend to enter you. You should still try using a lubricant they make a huge difference - as you will find usually you can be wet to begin with but women usually dry out after a while during intercourse. Just make sure you take it slow, relax and don't worry - you will soon start to enjoy yourself!!
 
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