When were you able to be intimate after rape?

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Hi. My girlfriend was violently raped about a month ago. We were just together for four months, but we've known each other for 20 years. I'd like to know when you had sex after your rape and when touching etc. was okay again? It's not a selfish question. I just don't want to go too fast for my girl. I know it's different for everyone, but i just want to know ok? Thanks