When We BOTH want To Be Wined and Dined?

katiebNH

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My husband and I rarely go out my ourselves. We do have children but they are not an issue as far as time. My husband believes that I should ask him out on dates as well as he should. So then we wait for each other to make a move, then nothing happens. He is usually this way in many situations and also makes note of when I am affectionate and when I am not. I sometimes feel like I'm with another woman! :) No pun intended at all but it is a slight turn off for me. I work hard as he and I wish I could get my husband to suggest a date for him and I and set it up and I get to get dressed and have some quality time over some dinner and wine with him but it sort of kills the romance when he is looking for me to set up a date as well. I know we all deserve some attention and for someone to take the first step but I feel I would like for him to take the first step in this department. Do I sound like a crazy woman or just like most woman? I'm looking for some advice into this situation and if it's me who is being to critical of my husband or if someone else sees the same as I. Anything you can advise, thanks!
 
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