when should I ask about being intimate?

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Rick W

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I am 33 and going through non difficult mutual divorce. I met a woman at a birthday party and we talk daily. We have had our first date and it was really great. She does live 2 hrs away and we have a 2nd date on the horizon. We are almost perfect for each other. How many dates before I should address being intimate.
When I mean non-difficult, mutual divorce, I mean that I am not psychologically hurting and there is no chance of reuniting. Thanks.
 
Generally, go with the flow on this one, but as a rule of thumb I would say not before the 4th date. But you will know when it's appropriate. She will send vibes and it will just feel right.
 
It's a mood thing. She'll send a lot of signs like snuggling up to you or just simply touching you a lot more. A woman's body language tells a lot about what she is feeling. If you try to get a little closer or get a little further and she moves away slightly, perhaps she's not ready for it. If you want to ask her directly, I suggest wait a date or two more when you are a little more clear on both side's stand in the relationship.
 
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