partly cloudy
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just wondering why it is encouraged for the person who was cheated on to keep their mouth shut and not bring it up anymore? this is what i have been reading on these self help sites on how to get over being lied to and cheated on. considering he has never told me one true thing ever, i have no answers as to what the hell he was doing and why. all i have are 4 years of emails, and a card that he must have gotten in the past year or two that says ...you bring out my passionate side xoxoxoxoxoxo.
i work nights so he's been out poundin around for 4 years, and wont even admit it.
i already know how to even the playing field and regain control of MY sexuality....just wondering why the paerson who was lied to and cheated on is encouraged to "let it go" and pretend nothing has happened.
thats a given...obviously the past can never be changed...but i can sure change my future.
i ask here, becasue the singles segment on ya does not seem to offer ligitamate insights.
we are not married (thank god for small favors)
the disgust and hate i feel for him is eating me up on the inside. a little bit more every day. but i am lieing to him like he did to me, and saying everything is cool. he is a disgusting pig, and i would love to see his face the day he walks in here and i have packed up all my stuff and am gone.
i work nights so he's been out poundin around for 4 years, and wont even admit it.
i already know how to even the playing field and regain control of MY sexuality....just wondering why the paerson who was lied to and cheated on is encouraged to "let it go" and pretend nothing has happened.
thats a given...obviously the past can never be changed...but i can sure change my future.
i ask here, becasue the singles segment on ya does not seem to offer ligitamate insights.
we are not married (thank god for small favors)
the disgust and hate i feel for him is eating me up on the inside. a little bit more every day. but i am lieing to him like he did to me, and saying everything is cool. he is a disgusting pig, and i would love to see his face the day he walks in here and i have packed up all my stuff and am gone.