When my boyfriend is in Army Boot Camp...?

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What are the chances of him cheating on me? More so boot camp in Fort Knox, combat training AND when he is going to be at AIT for his training in Texas. He is joining the Army Reserves and he is leaving today for boot camp. I have heard stories about woman who throw themselves at Army men in those areas.
Do they have time to leave the base during basic training?
Is there any opportunities for them to have relations during either?
Is there really that temptation from these women?

I should note that he has cheated on me before... That is why i am worried about this. But, only once. And I am 100% positive of that. I know that he is incredibly remorseful for what he has done and regrets everything. But obviously I am going to have trust issues. We have been together for 3 and a half years now and he has cheated once for about 5 months. Sooo.. yea... I know him better than anyone in his life, and a part of me trusts him because all he wants to do is get himself straight so that we can work out. But the other side can never forget what he did to me.
 
During basic he will not be able to leave the company area alone
much less any where else,and if you can find those ladies that throw
themselves on men,can I have their addresses? Don't worry about him
he'll come back to you very horny.
 
Unless hes gay, you should be all set. I think I saw maybe one female while I was in Basic Training and she wasn't even good looking. Hes going to be very very busy and I don't believe women are in BCT at Knox, they all go to Jackson.

So in short: You should be all set honey, he won't be able to touch himself, let alone another women.
 
Send him off with a couple of GOOD photos of you
B e adventurous but not to the point of being over exposed, Remember his bunk mates are gonna ask to see a pick of you and keep them coming keep his interest peeked.
A Gf of mine would send a close up picky of a part of her and ask me to identify it! could have been a crease in her elbow or behind her knee, WOW the effect was that I got to know all of her body, some of those pictures just looked so naughty but they weren't " get my drift"
Write to him on a very personal level. And Make the effort of at least being in the are ONCE when he gets leave, but don't over shadow him..
He needs to know you care and that if he did wander he would be losing a lot..
It is also a probability that you too might cheat on him!!! dare i say that, Yes I would!! Boot camp for what ever reason changes BOTH your outlooks, He gets to learn to perform as a team ( and there is no U or I in TEAM) and he gets to learn how to survive on his own ( and yes there is no U or I in OWN).

Good luck
 
As far as basic goes, he won't be able to cheat with any women. Now the other times, you two may have some trust issues. Once a partner cheats it takes a while to gain the trust back. It's okay not to trust him yet. Tell him the truth and make him earn your trust. Good luck!
 
I was in the US Army for 4 years as a Military Policeman and I can tell you for sure that the drill sergeants will keep him up from fireguard until taps is played every day and night and then some. (This is from 4am to 9pm or later depending on the mission or missions.) He won't have any chances to cheat or even LOOK at another woman. Good luck to you.

US Army Veteran, Military Police Corps
 
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