When is it too long to go without sex in a marriage?

[i lie to myself]

Is divorce a remedy? We just got married within a year of today, and we have only had sex 4-5 times since then. I don't think I love him romantically, I think we are just really good friends. I am happy living with him. But I feel very dissatisfied. I have never beleived in divorce as an 'answer' to anything, but I always thought the problems would be different than this problem.

 

[tfblechris]

Is the problem physical or psychological? One day in a marriage is too long to go without it.