i did not bleed my first time, but when i was a young child i fell on the moneybars and i bled so i got it checked out and the doctor said it was okay. but the first guy i had sex with was not that big, and i did not bleed, but the second guy,my current boyfriend, is bigger, and the first time i thought okay, maybe i did not bleed with the first because he was too small and now that he is bigger, maybe that is why. but it hurt at the begining, which is normal, but after, i had to go pee alot! and it kind of hurt. and it kept bleeding the next two days. but i wasnt too sure about anything yet because everything went away after two days. but i was 42 days late on my next period, then the next few times we had sex, the same things happened, all except the period being late. we used a condom each time. and the sex isnt rough.