I guess what I'm trying to say is, Isn't working toward being together, working on the necessary steps to make that happen, implicit when you tell someone you're interested in but can't be with right away that you're willing to wait, that the time and effort is worth the investment?
If it just turns into an open-ended process, as weeks become months, at what point do all the good intentions and heady promises have to succumb to reality? Without being unfair to the other person, who may be giving it their all, how does one deal with feeling like they are on the back burner regardless?
If it just turns into an open-ended process, as weeks become months, at what point do all the good intentions and heady promises have to succumb to reality? Without being unfair to the other person, who may be giving it their all, how does one deal with feeling like they are on the back burner regardless?