When does a girl judge a guy and on what traits?

[???]

I'm talking thier looks, body, body language, hobbies, interest, the way they make conversation, freindliness, cockiness, niceness etc. How long does iit take for the girl to decide. "ok if he asked me out today, would i say yes?"
lol it censoered cok i ness. Jeez, its not the same thing as the word its derived from.

 

[katheriac]

This differs from each girl.

For me personally, it takes quite a while to decide when I would commit, if ever.

Generally speaking, girls like guys with similar interests as themselves, cockiness is usually ALWAYS a turn off, yet confidence really gets a girl's attention. Conversation is key to a relationship. Looks aren't as important as guys seem to assume.

 

[Sweta]

If the girl doesn't know you then it could be your looks, but then as she gets to know you its mainly your personality, and your body language towards her, as oppose to other girls.
and personally my bf and I met, I was really excited for him to ask me out, and I know from the first date we went on that I wanted to be my bf.
Hope this helps, good luck.

 

[Kathy©]

Guess it does depend from girl to girl.
Some guys have come to think that if they're jerks, they'll get a girl, since 'nice guys finish last'.

However, for me, what I look for in a guy is pretty...simple, well, not really some say..but anyway..I usually look at their looks first, honestly, in the sense that if I see they're fat, then well, they don't even take time to take care of themselves, and I'm very picky when it comes to that. Looks aren't important to me at all though, it's just the first thing I usually see. I then look at how he acts, how nice he is, or not, and if he is able to hold conversations. Then come the similar interests and hobbies. Oh, and whether he has a good sense of humor is also something I look at...
You know, it's hard to answer the question, there's not just some things one looks at, it's how they're combined, and how the guy is overall, and sometimes different combination's work just the same.

For me it takes a while to decide whether I'd say yes or wouldn't. I have to know that I feel comfortable with the person and not feel embarrassed around them.