When did I become a pansy?

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Angry Little Fairy

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Okay, since the begginning of this school year I have noticed somthing. I have become a goddamn sadsack. I am serious. Last year I was fucking happy, bopping around and being, in general, a fun guy. But this year I am pathetic. I take random moodswings, I am boring, and I cant seem to snap out of funks. I stopped working out regularly and spend most of my time on this computer. I have a girl that I dated twice who still wants me to go out with her, while my girlfriend has cheated on me once (forgiven her of course) but im pretty sure that she is bored of me. I am sick of who I am being. Like really, its disgusting me even. So I was just wondering, any ideas of how to snap out of this funk? It is just so goddamn annoying.
 
I'm just teasing you. It's not uncommon for teenagers to have mood swings due to hormones and all that lovely shit. Whether or not this is the case with you, I don't know. Have you been getting enough sleep?
 
Well...No. But not for lack of trying. To much stuff is going on in my head to actually fall asleep at a good time. I just keep reminding myself that there is to much good in my life to worry over the small stuff like this, but it doesnt seem to work.
 
Ehh just give it some time. Take a day every once and a whlie to figure out what you want and than do something to cheer yourself up. Its as simple as it sounds.
 
When did you meet said woman, or when did the relationship start going south? It's going to have something to do with her. Otherwise you wouldn't have brought her into your story.
 
I would say you should do something about this girlfriend of yours. It sounds like she's weighing you down a bit. So, ditch her and try the other girl for a while. Try to start working out again, too; even if it doesn't make you happy, it'll make you tired enough to not care. Also, drink more water. Many different problems can be traced to not enough water, so take a 32 oz. bottle wherever you go, and drink it all every two or so hours.
 
Start working out again. Seriously, it releases natural anti-depressants. You'll feel like he-man hercules, you can dump the current ho, how can you trust her after she cheated on you? You can't, it will never last. And there ya go, you dont ahve an abusive bitch holding you by the leash and you dont have a depression problem anymore, just like that! :)

Take it from someone who was on anti-depressants for a while... and now is not... and is now very happy with someone really dear to me. :)

Also, I have 3 rules of relationships, mostly common sense, but for me, I tell every girl I date I have these 3 rules, you break any one of them and I'm DONE with you. You gotta make it clear that you have too much dignity to be taken advantage of.

1. No Lying (about things that you'd CARE that she lied about)
2. No taking advantage of you
3. No cheating.

Break any of those 3 rules, and tell the bitch she can hit the road.

of course, I understand you know a lot more about the situation than I do,but you've got to seriously reevaluate your trust in someone after they cheat on you, then build it up all over again. Or else it's just going to happen over and over.
 
Thanks guys. I guess that i was just feeling down on myself. I'm going to start going to the gym in town, dad and I got memberships so that will be good. With my girlfriend, sometimes I feel like I am the happiest I can be with her. That is mostly when I am actually physically with her. When I am not I can't help but doubt. Anyway, I think that she will actually call it off soon, so that makes things that much better. Is it bad of me to think that?
 
Not at all! This is a great step forward, and you're on the road to freedom! You'll start feeling to your good old self in no time, and prolly have the muscles to whoop the next bitch that cheats on you! Haha, just kidding, but you'll deffinetly feel, and act better, and more social!
 
If you notice this going on too much longer or that you start having really dark thoughts, you might just want to get checked out by a doc. I did and found I have depression and now I'm on meds. Although, that's probably not your problem. Drag yourself to the gym again and start working out. It's a great spirit lifter. :)
 
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