I thought that men could be feminists, too?
I mean, don't get me wrong- it does seem like males have a good hand in what's happening there. Just, I wouldn't dismiss claims about feminism's adverse effects on the family court system out-of-hand due to the presense of some males.
That is to say:
Most women who taught girls manners and such when they were little a hundred and so years ago were, well, women. Does that mean that they stood up for women's rights, or did they also perpetuate the notions that women were weak and to be subserviant?