Whats wrong with the hook up culture?

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niteinshining

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Known formerly as casual dating or casual sex.
Its been around for some time.
So whats the big deal now.

Yes I know women feel hurt and used after a hook up at times.
Men feel hurt and used when we spend money on a woman and dont get sex.
So what? Suck it ladies!

I dont see anything wrong with having fun and dating divorcees only.
You ladies marry if you wish but if you are miserable it is your own fault.

Of note:
If you want they way things were in the 50s except that now you can have a job as well as a man (and get paid well even though women's work is not in general as good as the work of a man), then try being polite and nice.

The Kelly Clarkson, I dont not hook up, no holla no sex without commitment will encourage men to lie and or ignore you.
This no hook up culture is old. Its called being a prude.
You may dis a lot of men. But then again you will also not have a man. Your choice ladies......

Thanks!
Edie: How can anyone guarantee not getting hurt?
 
lol.....sounds like a naughty little boy whine to me, Toots.

So, refusing to indulge in sex as 'payment' for a date is being a prude?

Any man who expected sex from me just because he took me out to dinner is one man I'd never cry over.....or have ANYthing to do with ever again...I'd be insulted and he'd be kicked to the curb....permanently.

In my book, exchanging sex for a meal is being a whore. And the guy is a John......the only difference is the restaurant is the 'middle man'...pimp? lol..... so save yourself the time and cut to the chase....offer her a Happy Meal for a roll in the Hay.....just let her keep the toy. Sure you'll find plenty of dates, too....on every city corner.

I am married...happily.....he committed BEFORE anything happened, as in marriage....there ARE old fashioned guys out there who respect women and don't see them as objects to 'have fun' with.

I got my 'choice'....I married a wonderful man who knows and practices the concepts of respect, love, fidelity, commitment and marriage...no gratuitous sex here.....

So have your 'fun', Toots......it's of no concern to me.....just don;t come whining when your old, alone and wondering where all the 'good, decent' women are........all the 'good, decent' men have married them.
 
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