whats best for first time sex ?

  • Thread starter Thread starter Hannah W
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him on top, wont hurt as much and he can really hold you in a loving way and you can just look up into his eyes and be all dreamy lol
 
I was on bottom.....but that didn't work out very well for me. It probably would've worked out much better if I had chosen a much, much, smaller partner though!!! Baby steps. Baby steps. There really is something to be said for that!!! Jeez.
 
For your first time, go for on bottom and be sure to ask him to be gentle if you think you need to. After the first few times then you can work your way into being on top, and then other positions. Get used to it first.
 
haha this is a given sweetie
you should be on bottom only because you're not experienced and you don't want to create a awkward moment to ruin the mood.
soooo i'd say have the guy on top.
it's alot easier
 
First of all protection is the most important. No matter how much you get caught in the heat of the moment you better make him cover that pickle! lol! But on a serious note, I always say play it by ear. Sex is one of those things you can't plan, well that's if you want it to be good sex. You've just got to let everything kind of happen even the sex itself. Once you get into the kissing and foreplay you'll feel more comfortable and maybe even confidant ;) and things will unfold from there. Everyone has their own preference of top or bottom and you'll figure that out. Maybe start off on the bottom, see how comfortable you feel and then if you want to be adventurous make that climb to the top. But speaking from experience, it's going to HURT so getting on top might be the least of your worries. Good luck girl!
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