studying, business? So, I had recently been dumped by my partner of 2 years because he happened to find someone else he found was more 'intellectual' since he moved to university/dorm living. Turned out she was not interested in him at all. (Found this out shadily) In return, he was pissed off basically.
When I was living with him for half a year last year, I must admit, I gained alot of weight through comfort of a relationship i suppose. (My first serious boyfriend, and i mean we were always holidaying and dining out). Since the split though, I've transformed physically which (from what i've seen from recent talking with his friend, they were infact TALKING about how it will be hard for me to to find someone else because of my weight - I was a size 16 since he last saw me when that conversation was had - I'm now a happily curvacious 12 - think the curvier version of Khloe Kardashian both body shape and clothing/hair style).
So the past 2 weeks I've flown over to see him as a friend (he's a very special person to me still, and I care so much about him, I still love to cook and clean for him even when it means his 5 dorm-mates being around - and besides, the apartment is a nightmare of a mess)! Sure, he's taken me out a few occassions, dropped me by my hotel, but i've just been doing normal things I would have done in the relationship, yet the only response I get is basically a whole lot of sexual hugging and a call to the bathroom for abit of action.
What would I do and still do now with him?:
(Cooking and cleaning etc is NOT to impress. It's always been a natural hobby of mine and always was a thing that i'd do while living together which I have no hesitation in doing, and besides, I stayed 2 nights out of the 2 weeks over in the dorm, so it's nice to be a little clean without having to tip-toe over everything you see and touch)..
* Talk business (I have 2 successful businesses running at the moment while he's working on his own and studying)
* Cook for him - be it lunch for when he returns from his afternoon class or a cake for the guys in the dormatory (So this also includes me going down to the local store, buying the food items to make his meals).
* Clean the apartment - including scrubbing down the kitchen, lounge and bathrooms (very dirty work in this environment)
* We have taken a few trips out to local attractions and a picnic/strolls on the beach
* I have been getting random hugs/kisses on the foreheads/nose, i do get told i look sexy, but it's just not the same. I feel like his doll. Sex doll? Sure..
- To be fair, he drives me to my hotel each night which at most is 15 minutes away. He hesitates at times which hurts me for some reason, but i'm ever so thankful).
All I'm wanting is to stay close to him in a way of emailing each other on occasion in the future. I would love to see him too in the near future, he'll always have a special place with me and I don't seem to be able to get that through to him..
Is this maybe that i'm just too.. much for a guy?? I'm a bit confused
When I was living with him for half a year last year, I must admit, I gained alot of weight through comfort of a relationship i suppose. (My first serious boyfriend, and i mean we were always holidaying and dining out). Since the split though, I've transformed physically which (from what i've seen from recent talking with his friend, they were infact TALKING about how it will be hard for me to to find someone else because of my weight - I was a size 16 since he last saw me when that conversation was had - I'm now a happily curvacious 12 - think the curvier version of Khloe Kardashian both body shape and clothing/hair style).
So the past 2 weeks I've flown over to see him as a friend (he's a very special person to me still, and I care so much about him, I still love to cook and clean for him even when it means his 5 dorm-mates being around - and besides, the apartment is a nightmare of a mess)! Sure, he's taken me out a few occassions, dropped me by my hotel, but i've just been doing normal things I would have done in the relationship, yet the only response I get is basically a whole lot of sexual hugging and a call to the bathroom for abit of action.
What would I do and still do now with him?:
(Cooking and cleaning etc is NOT to impress. It's always been a natural hobby of mine and always was a thing that i'd do while living together which I have no hesitation in doing, and besides, I stayed 2 nights out of the 2 weeks over in the dorm, so it's nice to be a little clean without having to tip-toe over everything you see and touch)..
* Talk business (I have 2 successful businesses running at the moment while he's working on his own and studying)
* Cook for him - be it lunch for when he returns from his afternoon class or a cake for the guys in the dormatory (So this also includes me going down to the local store, buying the food items to make his meals).
* Clean the apartment - including scrubbing down the kitchen, lounge and bathrooms (very dirty work in this environment)
* We have taken a few trips out to local attractions and a picnic/strolls on the beach
* I have been getting random hugs/kisses on the foreheads/nose, i do get told i look sexy, but it's just not the same. I feel like his doll. Sex doll? Sure..
- To be fair, he drives me to my hotel each night which at most is 15 minutes away. He hesitates at times which hurts me for some reason, but i'm ever so thankful).
All I'm wanting is to stay close to him in a way of emailing each other on occasion in the future. I would love to see him too in the near future, he'll always have a special place with me and I don't seem to be able to get that through to him..
Is this maybe that i'm just too.. much for a guy?? I'm a bit confused