<her name> = my gf
<his name> = her x
<my name> = me
Gossamer = "their" dog which she has.
The last responsed is at the top.
Been dating this girl for about 2 years. Up to this email I came accross, I didn't know much if anything about the ex and her contact/relationship with him. The ex lived with her for some time (years) after her divorce and it appears that he did not pay her rent and managed to accumulate some debt, still owes her 12k. After her divorce and the time with this guy, she appears to have been very irresponsible with her finances and now has a lot of debt (refinanced her house a few times, bought a very expensive car, took on to owning another dog (has two), took out home line of credit), etc.
I'm thinking I should have ran the other way when I read this. But I stuck around and now still having some issues with her communicating or otherwise thinking of this ex as a friend. Comments?
From: <her name> <<her email address>>
To: <his name> <<his email address>>
Sent: Fri, December 11, 2009 2:32:41 PM
Subject: Re: hey there
You should see the way he blinks his eyes - like he can't hang. he scratches at the door .
*<my name>, doesn't understand pets and thinks it's weird how I love the dogs like my children - he has no concept, so he definately would not understand child custody rights with Gossamer.
I'll get goss to you so you can smell ALL of his funkiness!!! God damn.
Now, F is all bummed - he feels like I am not tellinig him the truth - <F-word> him - I'm not the one asking him to hang out with my X, nor am I the one having to deal with a <Effin word> <c word> of an x for the rest of our relationship. On top of his evil kid.
From: <his name> <<his email address>>
To: <her name> <<her email address>>
Sent: Fri, December 11, 2009 2:23:41 PM
Subject: RE: hey there
I know and Rollins is the same way now. When I walked him the other day he was pretty much running to do his “business” since it was raining.
<his name>
From: <her name> [mailto:<her email address>]
Sent: Friday, December 11, 2009 2:14 PM
To: <his name>
Subject: Re: hey there
<my name>has his daughter so he wont be around. More / less it is <Her daughter> that I am concerned about. Maybe I can bring him to see you.
BTW - our baby Gossamer, the 100+ pitbull is a <p female genitalia word> in the rain
From: <his name> <<his email address>>
To: <her name> <<her email address>>
Sent: Fri, December 11, 2009 1:57:47 PM
Subject: RE: hey there
Oh, that was one thing I was going to mention. Gossamer is obviously a child of ours and it is the same as his X and him talking due to the child they have. Given, I have not come by to see Gossamer yet but I want <my name>to be comfortable enough with me before I come by to see him. I sure do miss him, maybe this weekend if it is raining since we can not ride if it is raining.
<his name>
From: <her name> [mailto:<her email address>]
Sent: Friday, December 11, 2009 1:40 PM
To: <his name>
Subject: Re: hey there
It all came up because we were to go to a xmas party where his X may be... cuz she used to ride MTB and she is still friends with that group.
I'm like sure - if you don't mind going to a party where my x might be. *Cuz dude has a major problem seeing things from my perspective. So, i thru it in his face and now he is forced to contend with him asking me to be put in the situation and how "one might feel".
I can't have a Heart to Heart with him because he lacks the ability
Besides his X wife is a <c word> from hell and we will have to deal with her (ALWAYS)
he can't possibly understand that we are "friends"
Now he is questioning about the Gossamer listing - <Effin word> A this is SO lame.
I guess I understand now what your GF and you had to go thru
From: <his name> <<his email address>>
To: <her name> <<her email address>>
Sent: Fri, December 11, 2009 1:28:58 PM
Subject: RE: hey there
One day at a time. If you guys do end things take some time off from trying to please someone all the time and please yourself…do what makes you happy. And if you find it was <my name> that made you happy explain that to him.
Good luck!
<his name>
From: <her name> [mailto:<her email address>]
Sent: Friday, December 11, 2009 1:23 PM
To: <his name>
Subject: Re: hey there
I'm a <Effin word> liar - I just told him that I have not seen you.
Oh <Effin word> well - if this is the straw that breaks the camel's back - oh well.
The truth of the matter is you are the love of my life, you always made me feel like I was the only one in the room you were
I have a 7 y/o daughter, my ex wife is the mom. I had a gf for almost two years after being divorced. I don't communicate with x gf because there is nothing to communicate about. I communicate with x-wife because of my daughter.
She has two dogs, the one on here they got together. I think he moved out in 2007 but have been trying to re-home the dog since 2006. No, he is not trying to get visitation rights to the dog, she would probably let him have it if he wanted it.
I blew up on seeing this email and broke up with her then.
The guy owes her about 12k still and pays her $100 a month. I am bothered that she still thinks of him as a friend and has lied about communicating with him. I feel that he is manipulating her and using her and she can't accept that.
<his name> = her x
<my name> = me
Gossamer = "their" dog which she has.
The last responsed is at the top.
Been dating this girl for about 2 years. Up to this email I came accross, I didn't know much if anything about the ex and her contact/relationship with him. The ex lived with her for some time (years) after her divorce and it appears that he did not pay her rent and managed to accumulate some debt, still owes her 12k. After her divorce and the time with this guy, she appears to have been very irresponsible with her finances and now has a lot of debt (refinanced her house a few times, bought a very expensive car, took on to owning another dog (has two), took out home line of credit), etc.
I'm thinking I should have ran the other way when I read this. But I stuck around and now still having some issues with her communicating or otherwise thinking of this ex as a friend. Comments?
From: <her name> <<her email address>>
To: <his name> <<his email address>>
Sent: Fri, December 11, 2009 2:32:41 PM
Subject: Re: hey there
You should see the way he blinks his eyes - like he can't hang. he scratches at the door .
*<my name>, doesn't understand pets and thinks it's weird how I love the dogs like my children - he has no concept, so he definately would not understand child custody rights with Gossamer.
I'll get goss to you so you can smell ALL of his funkiness!!! God damn.
Now, F is all bummed - he feels like I am not tellinig him the truth - <F-word> him - I'm not the one asking him to hang out with my X, nor am I the one having to deal with a <Effin word> <c word> of an x for the rest of our relationship. On top of his evil kid.
From: <his name> <<his email address>>
To: <her name> <<her email address>>
Sent: Fri, December 11, 2009 2:23:41 PM
Subject: RE: hey there
I know and Rollins is the same way now. When I walked him the other day he was pretty much running to do his “business” since it was raining.
<his name>
From: <her name> [mailto:<her email address>]
Sent: Friday, December 11, 2009 2:14 PM
To: <his name>
Subject: Re: hey there
<my name>has his daughter so he wont be around. More / less it is <Her daughter> that I am concerned about. Maybe I can bring him to see you.
BTW - our baby Gossamer, the 100+ pitbull is a <p female genitalia word> in the rain
From: <his name> <<his email address>>
To: <her name> <<her email address>>
Sent: Fri, December 11, 2009 1:57:47 PM
Subject: RE: hey there
Oh, that was one thing I was going to mention. Gossamer is obviously a child of ours and it is the same as his X and him talking due to the child they have. Given, I have not come by to see Gossamer yet but I want <my name>to be comfortable enough with me before I come by to see him. I sure do miss him, maybe this weekend if it is raining since we can not ride if it is raining.
<his name>
From: <her name> [mailto:<her email address>]
Sent: Friday, December 11, 2009 1:40 PM
To: <his name>
Subject: Re: hey there
It all came up because we were to go to a xmas party where his X may be... cuz she used to ride MTB and she is still friends with that group.
I'm like sure - if you don't mind going to a party where my x might be. *Cuz dude has a major problem seeing things from my perspective. So, i thru it in his face and now he is forced to contend with him asking me to be put in the situation and how "one might feel".
I can't have a Heart to Heart with him because he lacks the ability
Besides his X wife is a <c word> from hell and we will have to deal with her (ALWAYS)
he can't possibly understand that we are "friends"
Now he is questioning about the Gossamer listing - <Effin word> A this is SO lame.
I guess I understand now what your GF and you had to go thru
From: <his name> <<his email address>>
To: <her name> <<her email address>>
Sent: Fri, December 11, 2009 1:28:58 PM
Subject: RE: hey there
One day at a time. If you guys do end things take some time off from trying to please someone all the time and please yourself…do what makes you happy. And if you find it was <my name> that made you happy explain that to him.
Good luck!
<his name>
From: <her name> [mailto:<her email address>]
Sent: Friday, December 11, 2009 1:23 PM
To: <his name>
Subject: Re: hey there
I'm a <Effin word> liar - I just told him that I have not seen you.
Oh <Effin word> well - if this is the straw that breaks the camel's back - oh well.
The truth of the matter is you are the love of my life, you always made me feel like I was the only one in the room you were
I have a 7 y/o daughter, my ex wife is the mom. I had a gf for almost two years after being divorced. I don't communicate with x gf because there is nothing to communicate about. I communicate with x-wife because of my daughter.
She has two dogs, the one on here they got together. I think he moved out in 2007 but have been trying to re-home the dog since 2006. No, he is not trying to get visitation rights to the dog, she would probably let him have it if he wanted it.
I blew up on seeing this email and broke up with her then.
The guy owes her about 12k still and pays her $100 a month. I am bothered that she still thinks of him as a friend and has lied about communicating with him. I feel that he is manipulating her and using her and she can't accept that.