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What would you do in this situation: if someone you really liked/cared for…Long...
...but worthy read? This is a somewhat complicated story but very worth the read…please read through entirely and don’t be quick to judge, thanks.
Last spring I had added someone on facebook that was a complete stranger, (I don’t usually do this) it’s just something about this person seemed intriguing, the next day I found this guy had inboxed me asking if he might not me, and our communication started from there…long story short we found out we are very similar and ended up also meeting face to face a couple of times we would have met up more but he lives in the country my parents immigrated from (and where I hope to move back to) I was only visiting for the summer and had minimal opportunities to see him, but he would contact send me emails and songs via text messages when we weren’t together…it was kind of scary how alike we were two complete strangers who met by coincidence and from countries with an ocean apart, he said also himself how alike we were and how he found me attractive but he could never do a long distance relationship, and that he still doesn’t know me very very well( which of course I agree with)….he never tried to put any moves on me and was utterly respectful, which is one of the reasons why I liked him so much…
After returning to the States I was extremely glad to see that he still wanted to maintain communication with me and maintain our connection…I was busy in the fall and when he did see me online he would always IM me and say he’d been going online more to try and catch me on several occasions, and he would send me emails saying to go online even if for a minute to say hi, and asked when I’d be coming back to his country, and how fortunate he feels to know me….the communication between us continued all the months up until Valentines (but not as ‘aggressive’ as he’d been as in the fall)….two days before V-day he IMed me and we had a lengthy conversation that was even more pleasant than other times, he told me he was going to go visit another country for relatives in about 1 week ..and I told him if I don’t get to talk to you by then have a great trip…but he replied no we’ll get to talk again before then(he made it clear)..
1 day later I saw an email from him asking me something, and a notification on fb of him ‘liking’ a picture of mine you really have to search for…I decided to reply the next evening (V-Day)…..and was utterly shocked to see his fb was completely deleted (not blocked)….just the night before he was there…the next completely gone…I freaked out and have been very depressed because this was our only way of communicating from a far….I feel so many emotions confusion, shock, heartbroken….it’s now been about 3 weeks and he still hasn’t returned to his account…and my greatest fear is he won’t come back at all :’(….I had always thought he felt the connection I felt with him between us and that’s why he decided to keep talking with me, so why did he cut off our only line of communication? I have his cell number but I couldn’t imagine texting him from here I think that would be weird. .Please help..
...but worthy read? This is a somewhat complicated story but very worth the read…please read through entirely and don’t be quick to judge, thanks.
Last spring I had added someone on facebook that was a complete stranger, (I don’t usually do this) it’s just something about this person seemed intriguing, the next day I found this guy had inboxed me asking if he might not me, and our communication started from there…long story short we found out we are very similar and ended up also meeting face to face a couple of times we would have met up more but he lives in the country my parents immigrated from (and where I hope to move back to) I was only visiting for the summer and had minimal opportunities to see him, but he would contact send me emails and songs via text messages when we weren’t together…it was kind of scary how alike we were two complete strangers who met by coincidence and from countries with an ocean apart, he said also himself how alike we were and how he found me attractive but he could never do a long distance relationship, and that he still doesn’t know me very very well( which of course I agree with)….he never tried to put any moves on me and was utterly respectful, which is one of the reasons why I liked him so much…
After returning to the States I was extremely glad to see that he still wanted to maintain communication with me and maintain our connection…I was busy in the fall and when he did see me online he would always IM me and say he’d been going online more to try and catch me on several occasions, and he would send me emails saying to go online even if for a minute to say hi, and asked when I’d be coming back to his country, and how fortunate he feels to know me….the communication between us continued all the months up until Valentines (but not as ‘aggressive’ as he’d been as in the fall)….two days before V-day he IMed me and we had a lengthy conversation that was even more pleasant than other times, he told me he was going to go visit another country for relatives in about 1 week ..and I told him if I don’t get to talk to you by then have a great trip…but he replied no we’ll get to talk again before then(he made it clear)..
1 day later I saw an email from him asking me something, and a notification on fb of him ‘liking’ a picture of mine you really have to search for…I decided to reply the next evening (V-Day)…..and was utterly shocked to see his fb was completely deleted (not blocked)….just the night before he was there…the next completely gone…I freaked out and have been very depressed because this was our only way of communicating from a far….I feel so many emotions confusion, shock, heartbroken….it’s now been about 3 weeks and he still hasn’t returned to his account…and my greatest fear is he won’t come back at all :’(….I had always thought he felt the connection I felt with him between us and that’s why he decided to keep talking with me, so why did he cut off our only line of communication? I have his cell number but I couldn’t imagine texting him from here I think that would be weird. .Please help..