What would you do in this environment ? This is the place i call "home"?

Larry K

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Yesterday i posted a question about being in a state of panic at my home.Many bad things happened to me here! My sister and i have never got along since we were kids,and now she is fifty and i am fifty two yrs old! she just got back here today after taking a "week off" from taking care of my elderly father.I have had not had a chance to take a break for more than a few hours at a time for months!Since the last time we had a disagreement,she wont even talk to me,which is fine with me!!!!!!! But we live in the same house!She has had me attacked by her two different husbands many different times! Once a month my cousin comes for one week to help with my dad so she can take off for one week and says that i can take off for this same week! I do not have any place to go other than on the street! And do not even have a bed or my own room here! There is a bed and empty room which i am not allowed to use! Because this is My "cousins" room! She is only here one week per month! I sleep in the shop out in the back yard with all the spiders! I think this is domestic abuse! But She has power of attorney over my dads home and is "trustee"of all the money,and uses this to have control over me and my liberties.If i leave here then her and my relatives make it seem like i don't care about my dad!And if i stay they make it seem like all I'm doing is waiting for him to die so i get my inheritantice! To me even if it was 100billion dollars!!!! is not worth one penny for me to feel this way on a daily basis!! Iam in a constant state of depression,fear and anxiety!! What does anyone suggest?
 
Start looking for an apartment. You can still help with your father on the days you and your sister have set up. But you need your own space and not live like some animal. This is not domestic abuse you have control over your life. If you would only get past what people might say.
 
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