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Moocy
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This guy who is a JACKIE chan wannabe whines a lot. seriously he sounds like a horse and cow at the same time. what do would u do if u see him everyday of your life?
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Lovebug
Guest
i would tell him to shut up and grow balls really men dont whine .. . . .. . . . .
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Sara Lee
Guest
Wow, if this is what his best friend thinks of him, what do his enemies say about him behind his back?
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the_unbridesmaid
Guest
Can you act? Do the same thing one day and try not to laugh whilst doing it. See if he gets the resemblance. If not, at least you had fun With it. But, in all seriousness, if it bothers you, tell him and be gentle. He should be receptive. Good luck
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T@T!
Guest
tell him to buck up or shut up
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Ashley M
Guest
keep him as a friend and get a new best friend
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Run Wild
Guest
LOL it would depend on which one; the one who is my bestie would get a swift kick in the backside and I'd tell him to knock it off.
Seriously though ask him to please stop cuz it's really annoying. If he's your friend he'll be cool about it.
Seriously though ask him to please stop cuz it's really annoying. If he's your friend he'll be cool about it.
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anthony p
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Most whiners enjoy whining only when they have an audience. Has this guy always been whiney around you, or has it increased as of late? If it has increased, perhaps he is feeling that you are a "safe" person on which to unload all of his grief. Beware, though: this is not usually true "grief" –Â*people like that really do derive some pleasure from putting on a whiney show.
There are a few tactics that work: 1) try to change the subject, or turn the object of his whininess into something light and humorous. Often being able to find humor in vexing situations can diffuse the urge to whine. 2) See if he really is trying to reach out for help. If you feel that under the veil of whininess is a deep problem, see if you can make parents, coworkers, or mutual friends aware – whatever the case may be –Â*so as to help intervene. 3) You might need space. When he lashes out at other things, he might not be satisfied with your friendship, but may not wish to tell you. If your relationship is strained, sometimes taking a break can help. It sounds like if you see him "every day of your life" you might also be looking for a chance to take a break for a bit as well.
I have had friends that have fit in all three of these scenarios. I myself can be a whiner when I choose to. The best thing to do for a whiner is not to dismiss them, but do not let them rule you with their black cloud. They do not want your sympathy –Â*they want power over you emotionally. Do not give it to them. Give them the support to see their problems and the strength to resolve them, but do not fix their issues for them. They whine because they feel powerless; let them know they are powerful and they will stop whining.
There are a few tactics that work: 1) try to change the subject, or turn the object of his whininess into something light and humorous. Often being able to find humor in vexing situations can diffuse the urge to whine. 2) See if he really is trying to reach out for help. If you feel that under the veil of whininess is a deep problem, see if you can make parents, coworkers, or mutual friends aware – whatever the case may be –Â*so as to help intervene. 3) You might need space. When he lashes out at other things, he might not be satisfied with your friendship, but may not wish to tell you. If your relationship is strained, sometimes taking a break can help. It sounds like if you see him "every day of your life" you might also be looking for a chance to take a break for a bit as well.
I have had friends that have fit in all three of these scenarios. I myself can be a whiner when I choose to. The best thing to do for a whiner is not to dismiss them, but do not let them rule you with their black cloud. They do not want your sympathy –Â*they want power over you emotionally. Do not give it to them. Give them the support to see their problems and the strength to resolve them, but do not fix their issues for them. They whine because they feel powerless; let them know they are powerful and they will stop whining.
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anthony p
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Most whiners enjoy whining only when they have an audience. Has this guy always been whiney around you, or has it increased as of late? If it has increased, perhaps he is feeling that you are a "safe" person on which to unload all of his grief. Beware, though: this is not usually true "grief" –Â*people like that really do derive some pleasure from putting on a whiney show.
There are a few tactics that work: 1) try to change the subject, or turn the object of his whininess into something light and humorous. Often being able to find humor in vexing situations can diffuse the urge to whine. 2) See if he really is trying to reach out for help. If you feel that under the veil of whininess is a deep problem, see if you can make parents, coworkers, or mutual friends aware – whatever the case may be –Â*so as to help intervene. 3) You might need space. When he lashes out at other things, he might not be satisfied with your friendship, but may not wish to tell you. If your relationship is strained, sometimes taking a break can help. It sounds like if you see him "every day of your life" you might also be looking for a chance to take a break for a bit as well.
I have had friends that have fit in all three of these scenarios. I myself can be a whiner when I choose to. The best thing to do for a whiner is not to dismiss them, but do not let them rule you with their black cloud. They do not want your sympathy –Â*they want power over you emotionally. Do not give it to them. Give them the support to see their problems and the strength to resolve them, but do not fix their issues for them. They whine because they feel powerless; let them know they are powerful and they will stop whining.
There are a few tactics that work: 1) try to change the subject, or turn the object of his whininess into something light and humorous. Often being able to find humor in vexing situations can diffuse the urge to whine. 2) See if he really is trying to reach out for help. If you feel that under the veil of whininess is a deep problem, see if you can make parents, coworkers, or mutual friends aware – whatever the case may be –Â*so as to help intervene. 3) You might need space. When he lashes out at other things, he might not be satisfied with your friendship, but may not wish to tell you. If your relationship is strained, sometimes taking a break can help. It sounds like if you see him "every day of your life" you might also be looking for a chance to take a break for a bit as well.
I have had friends that have fit in all three of these scenarios. I myself can be a whiner when I choose to. The best thing to do for a whiner is not to dismiss them, but do not let them rule you with their black cloud. They do not want your sympathy –Â*they want power over you emotionally. Do not give it to them. Give them the support to see their problems and the strength to resolve them, but do not fix their issues for them. They whine because they feel powerless; let them know they are powerful and they will stop whining.
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anthony p
Guest
Most whiners enjoy whining only when they have an audience. Has this guy always been whiney around you, or has it increased as of late? If it has increased, perhaps he is feeling that you are a "safe" person on which to unload all of his grief. Beware, though: this is not usually true "grief" –Â*people like that really do derive some pleasure from putting on a whiney show.
There are a few tactics that work: 1) try to change the subject, or turn the object of his whininess into something light and humorous. Often being able to find humor in vexing situations can diffuse the urge to whine. 2) See if he really is trying to reach out for help. If you feel that under the veil of whininess is a deep problem, see if you can make parents, coworkers, or mutual friends aware – whatever the case may be –Â*so as to help intervene. 3) You might need space. When he lashes out at other things, he might not be satisfied with your friendship, but may not wish to tell you. If your relationship is strained, sometimes taking a break can help. It sounds like if you see him "every day of your life" you might also be looking for a chance to take a break for a bit as well.
I have had friends that have fit in all three of these scenarios. I myself can be a whiner when I choose to. The best thing to do for a whiner is not to dismiss them, but do not let them rule you with their black cloud. They do not want your sympathy –Â*they want power over you emotionally. Do not give it to them. Give them the support to see their problems and the strength to resolve them, but do not fix their issues for them. They whine because they feel powerless; let them know they are powerful and they will stop whining.
There are a few tactics that work: 1) try to change the subject, or turn the object of his whininess into something light and humorous. Often being able to find humor in vexing situations can diffuse the urge to whine. 2) See if he really is trying to reach out for help. If you feel that under the veil of whininess is a deep problem, see if you can make parents, coworkers, or mutual friends aware – whatever the case may be –Â*so as to help intervene. 3) You might need space. When he lashes out at other things, he might not be satisfied with your friendship, but may not wish to tell you. If your relationship is strained, sometimes taking a break can help. It sounds like if you see him "every day of your life" you might also be looking for a chance to take a break for a bit as well.
I have had friends that have fit in all three of these scenarios. I myself can be a whiner when I choose to. The best thing to do for a whiner is not to dismiss them, but do not let them rule you with their black cloud. They do not want your sympathy –Â*they want power over you emotionally. Do not give it to them. Give them the support to see their problems and the strength to resolve them, but do not fix their issues for them. They whine because they feel powerless; let them know they are powerful and they will stop whining.