I've been married for 3 years, in the beginning everything was great! The sex life was there and interesting! Now I barely get anything from my husband. He's just flat out boring now. I've purchased sexy outfits, toys, asked him to maybe purchase a video or something of that nature. Sometimes I think maybe it's because he and I rarely see each other. He works 13 hour shifts, 7 days a week. And I'm a recent graduate of nursing school so that took up a whole lot of time. But still you should definitely make time for your partner. We've had this talk about our sex life over and over and over again. It improves for about a week, and then it's back to being dull. I just don't know.. PLEASE GIVE ME ADVICE!!!!!!!!!