What would you do if you seem to attract the wrong sex more likely that not?

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Like, if you like girls more but all the attention you get seem to be soley from boys?

I'm talking about real life?
haha I'm bi! Just happen to like girls more.
No of course I won't be extreme with a labelled shirt! Lol :-P
 
Quite a lot of it happens because of the way you look, while I don't enjoy stereotypes or applying them to anybody, if you look like a hot straight chick then guys are going to pick up on you. If you're really desperate about it you could try wearing a T-shirt which identifies your sexual orientation. Or just mainly hang out with people who know you for who you are.
 
Ha, that's exactly what happens to me. I attract guys. Esepecially the military type. -_- I hate it. I want girls!!! It sucks but there's nothing much I can do. Just laugh it off I guess.
 
If you look good and appear to have an approachable personality, men will approach you. I don't think you should change anything to prevent that, you can brush them off when they hit on you.

I've only really known two lesbian women, but one of them would take on a bit of the man's role to meet women--she wouldn't wait to be approached, she'd go after the woman she likes. She'd see an attractive woman, walk up and make friends, and start light flirting and touching her arm or holding her hand to see if she's repelled, curious, into it, or whatever, and then work from there. I know its tough to put yourself out there to be accepted or rejected, but I think you'll like the control you have over your dating destiny.
 
that's just the way the mop flops I suppose
Just gotta keep waiting around for someone with the right parts to come along :P

lol
 
then you need to try and make it more obvious that you like girls. if there is a lesbian or bi girl that likes you and they think you are straight then they won't want to hit on you or anything because they don't want to get rejected. if guys hit on you just say sorry dude, i like girls and eventually the word will get around, hope this helps
 
i always get more attention from guys than girls when i'm out. it doesn't matter though b/c i have my special someone. so whether it be guys or girls that i'm getting more attention from, it makes no difference.
 
I think the issue might be that girls don't know that you are into girls. I think you might have to be more forward.
 
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