what would the best way to break up with bum who is recently homeless and

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Darlene

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using ur car as a home? i am torn inside i feel like a cold hearted bitch saying no to my recent bum boyfriend, he is constantly being kicked out of his house for mooching off his parents and not keeping a job and he is mooching off me and i am enabling him b/c i feel sooo bad for the guy why b/c he guilt trips me and it will break my heart kicking him to the curb knowing he is alone and i will be alone and in order to get rid of him i would have to do drastic measures b/c its been going on so long that he would freak and prolly end up in jail if i broke up with him not my problem but would still break my heart to see him do something so outhere and crazy i am scared to break up with him b/c he will prolly break something or get into a fight with my dad and get arrested god i don't know it would be bad thats all i know.
 
There is no good way. Sometimes you just have to let people hit rock bottom. If they love you, they will see the good in it (although it's going to take some time) and it will make them stronger and better people. So just keep telling yourself that and hope it's true and do what you have to do. Good luck.
 
Do what is best for you. Don't worry about what will happen to him. If you want him around, then try to motivate him. If you are tired of him sponging off of you,( and if you continue to let him, he will,) then kick him out and find someone else. Never worry about being alone, you'll find someone else and life is too short to spend it feeling like you only keep someone around because you feel sorry for them. If it isn't love and you are tired of him, move on now before it really is too late.
As far as the best way to break up, that is the hard part. It is easiest just to be straight forward. Give the reason and tell him to leave. If you don't feel safe, then be sure to keep some friends around for a few days and change your locks.
 
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