What would it take for women to make sex a priority in their lives?

[edwardh]

Throughout our lives we have been amazed that men seem to be ever eager to engage in sex on an almost constant basis and women seemed to have conditions. We are a couple in the Lifestyle (swinging) and we see that the only women who seem to be interested in casual sex are those who are very Bisexual. The other women we encounter have attitudes ranging from non-interest to being forced into it for fear of loosing their husbands to cheating. We see a tremendous disparity between single men looking for sex and women. It has gotten so bad that we have stopped playing with couples and solely engaged in MFM three-ways. My husband was beginning to feel uneasy having sex with women who just lay there. Being in the 21st Century it has amazed us both that women could be held back because of ingrained morality. Most of the men looking for sex aren't Adonis' so women really shouldn't be that hung up on looking like a cover girl. We are asking the question believing that there is something we are missing.

 

[Captain Obvious Says]

better sex

 

[Dominick]

Parent(s) who never loved her?

I don't know lol but that would be SWEEEEET!!

 

[Unregistered]

Sex is certainly a priority in my life. The only qualities I would put before that would be trust and honesty... and perhaps kindness. Your lifestyle is definitely different from most people I know, and I am open to try it out in my future. However, I mostly feel a lack of interest in males other than my partner. (It's part of the reason why we got back together.) Perhaps that's a reason why some girls don't want to try it? I won't be closed to the idea if another man could please me as well as my partner, but from past experience, I haven't found him yet. Also, if I were to engage in such a lifestyle with my partner and another couple, I'd imagine I might become self-conscious if the other lady was prettier/had a better body/etc. than I do and if my partner shows more than just sexual interest in her. Perhaps the other woman in the couples you met were intimidated by you. If she was ugly or not in shape, I probably wouldn't care; in fact, I might even flaunt it.