All of the arguments I have with my hubby are trivial. And it's because
he never hears what I say correctly. He will think I say something like
what I've actually said. So it's very frustrating to repeat myself, and
say the words slowly so he fully understands that he heard wrong.
Or he will second guess what he thinks I'm going to say, and will
have an answer ready for rebuttal. When I am close enough for him to
fully understand me, it's when we're in the car. And now he gets too
nervous while driving, to listen to what I'm saying. So how does one
deal with a man who has it all planned out in his head what he thinks
I'm saying, and nine times out of ten, he is always wrong and this
tends to create an argument. And much of the time, it's one sided.