What to do when the sex gets bad?

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I have been with my boyfriend for 6 years and we really love each other, but we have really lost that "Spark". He use to be way hot, but he's really let himself go. He has bad eating and hygiene habits and he's gained a lot of weight. I don't feel sexually attracted to him anymore and I realy think this has effected our sex life. It totally sucks now! And i'm getting depressed about it! To the point where I avoid having sex (yeah, that bad). Any advise people??? Thank you!
 
Tell him the truth, It might hurt his feelings at first, but its better then continuing along this path. You will end up resenting each other.

Im sure your partner will be more then happy to do some small things to spice up your sex life. After all he benefits too. But dont be greedy do some stuff for him too.
 
Ouch! that's bad. i would suggest talking to him. I know he will get upset. But if you don't say anything...then what?

Just be very VERY selective with your words. It may sounds shallow, but if it's affecting your sex life, then you HAVE to speak up.

Otherwise, try different methods. Try doing it in different rooms of the house. Makes it different than the normal bedroom routine.
Good luck sweety, because if the sex drys up...then it's kinda like friendship more than relationship. Well that's how i see it anyway :)
 
try something new like a new position or something thats what me and my husband did makes things more fun.
 
i would tell him what u juss said on here.....maybee he will get the hint and start taking better care of himself...
 
well... try talking to him about his weight & hygiene. tell him that these certain things are making you feel not so sexual towards. tell him that u don't want to loose that spark between you two and you would like for him to pay more attention to the way he looks.
 
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